Forced haircut scenes in videos or role-playings (not forced cuts for real, which definitively are not acceptable under any circumstance) are a controversial issue among members of our community. Some people say they are a turn on, enhancing the experience of giving or receiving a haircut, while others consider them repulsive, unatractive or ridiculous.
In my personal perspective, forced scenes are potentially interesting, but there must be a precise mutual consent between two adults who choose to play the game. In case partners feel inclined to be forceful, using authority, physical force or restraints (as handcuffs, silk ties or velcro straps), they should, in advance, state their wishes and limits, establishing a word for safety purposes, for the case one regrets and wants to interrupt the scene. I also feel this is an activity to be played by people who trust and know each other pretty well. Well, this is my perspective upon the subject of (fake) forced haircuts and barberchair bondage. What is yours? Please, let us know, leaving a comment here.
Posted by Harriet.
I concur—but I also believe those constraints will ruin much of the element of surprise and uncertainty from the interplay. An interplay that largely derives its power from surprise and uncertainty.
ReplyDeleteAs contradictory as it seems at first glance, by straying past the bounds of acting consensually, you lose freedom, as you bind each other to the even stricter confines defined by the overlap of your comfort zones.
Behold, I have to agree with you! Although uncertainty and surprise may become promising components of a hair experience, I am such a freaking controliing coward! LOL
ReplyDeleteIf I joke to the barber about wanting a flattop, I should get a flattop. If you hint about wanting a forced haircut, you should get one. You shouldn't have to spell it out and spoil the fun.
ReplyDeleteI would like to see more replies from Harry, :)
ReplyDeleteMe too, says Harriet! LOL
ReplyDeleteHe writes wonderful stories and his comments are wonderful.