Harry and I have been chatting today and decided to share with you our perspective concerning hair play. Hair is not just something to be scissored, clippered, razored, shaven... Hair play is something to be savored at the most, slowly, deeply, in a state of full awareness. The Italians say that a meal should be a moment of slow processing, to allow for social interaction, appreciation of life, to increase the pleasure of nourishment. This is the slow food movement, as they wisely call it, in opposition to fast food. Well, we consider everyone should do the same in relation to hair. After all, what are our senses for?
Have you ever enjoyed the perfume of shampoos, conditioners and other hair products? Is it fruity, herbal, floral, what? Your partner's distinctive scent is rich in pheromones, we excret molecules that are related to a certain degree of lusty feelings. For example, have you paid attention to his musky scent as he approaches your hair? Olfactive estimulation is more important than we could imagine.
Hair is an extension of our bodies, and so, hairplay is necessarily a very intimate act, in sexual and non-sexual contexts. Someone is entitled to touch your scalp, ears, forehead, nape. Shoulder, nape and scalp massage is a treasure to be cultivated during hair play. Casual touching, as you cape your partner, for example, can be very erotic and enhance the pleasure of your sessions. Remove snipped hair with the palm of hands, and take advantage of the tickling feeling of a barber brush. Fluffy towels, crisp capes, warm water or lather, all these are enhancers of a good moment. Your skilled hands and fingers are your most important tools in what concerns the tactile aspect.
Additionally, let your partner's ears be estimulated. Choose songs to create a sensual atmosphere (blues, jazzy themes, a little bit old Cole Porter or bossa nova may fit your encounter brilliantly). The metallic sound of scissors and the hypnotic buzzing of clippers can be noticed while they eagerly cut hair and penetrate your partner's mind. Say spicy or tender words, whisper what he or she does expect to listen to, or surprise who sits in your chair with daring sentences never said before.
Bring wine, wild berries, chocolate to the scene, estimulate the gustative pappilae during hair play. And lick your partner, savoring his or her skin. Drop a bit of chocolate syrup on a shaven nape and taste it very slowly. Kisses, many kisses, before, during and after hair play.
Play hide and seek. Capes can hide goose bumps. Blindfold your partner, take the mirror away. Or do the opposite, offering a huge mirror to amplify the experience, position your chair to permit a full vision of all moves. Exhibit your shiny or colorful tools: combs, brushes, scissors, colorful capes, clippers and guards. Face to face conversation, eye to eye contact is a must. Let the sun enter the room. Go outside if this is the case. Explore hair colors.
This is just a very schematic description of the plethora of adorable experiences one can have when they decide to transform hair play into memorable life experience.
We are founding the slow hair play movement! Please, join us.
Harriet.
Changing hair color is also fun and always begs for a haircut to go with it. I like it when light hair goes very dark and vice versa. I love the rubber gloves, the smell and the look of a nervous woman with a bag on her head glancing at the clock every so often so she doesn't leave it in too long. I love how hair looks when it's all one color, obviously dyed. I don't know why anyone would think that's bad or even care. It looks cool, like she cares enough to dye her hair but not so much as to pretend she didn't.
ReplyDeleteDark hair going blond is also cool. But, of course, a woman can always dye it dark again if she has a change of heart. The change of heart is harder for a blond woman dyed dark. She'll never get it even close to how it was.